Wednesday, March 23, 2011

19 MAR 2011(SATURDAY) 阴天-Day 2

This morning can said to be the happiest morning in my life,we hang out together in the pasar pagi which just a stone away from her home sweet home,haha…

After i changed my clothes,we were fetched by her parents,since they were heading towards Perak to pay a visit to her uncle who was hospitalised yesterday..Back to pasar pagi,all the hawkers spoke Cantonese that I'm not really fluent with it,but at least better than her =X right,dear ?? haha.. I becoming her spokeman after all…whatever she wana buy,I asked and bought for her,finally we bought 3 油炸鬼,bee hoon,kuih and taufu fa…After bought our breakfast,we walked back to her home which took us about 10 minutes.On the way home,I realised that the houses there are all landed houses,neither apartment nor flat can be found.In Penang,most of the buldings(houses) are sky rocketing(maybe i exaggerate a bit.haha),but most of the landed houses were owned by those rich people,unlucky that I'm not one of it.haha..After reached her home,we started to have our 'candle breakfast'..She really cant eat much !!! =X I really mean it !! She left so much foods for me.Luciky I’ve been trained to be "trash can" at home,so finish all except tat 豆沙糕..Am i good enough??=D Well,I'm saving the earth too so that 2012 wont be cuming true ! I don't wana die so fast,i haven't enjoy finish my life !!

Later on, we sat on sofa to watch cartoons.Although our eyes watching,but then our minds thinking others.haha.We planned the transport to times square.At 1st we thought her bro can fetched us go after he finish worked,who knows he will only be back around 3-4pm. I thought he was busying dating ba..=X..Nevermind,we still hav our plan B ! by bus ! =D..the bus stop just located behind her home..The weather doesn't seem good that day,it started to rain heavily ! OMG ! We didnt want to bring the umbrella because scared it "zho deng",so we rather RUN to the bus stop ! Pathetic !! anyway,quite fun running while enjoying the rain drops..crazy right? haha..

Once we reached there,she already asked me to be her ‘slave’,tied up the rope on her bag cause the bag rope had been loosen..While I'm tieing it,a rapid bus pass by at the opposite direction,we were so excited and quickly stand up,but then duno why the bus didn't stop at all !! how frustrated and curious we were !! After waited for another 20 mins,finally a bus stopped infront of us,we felt so happy and immediately rush into the bus…There was only a passenger in that bus,since it was our first ride to KL central,we have no idea at all about the bus fee and how exactly KL central look likes!! So I open my "gold" mouth and asked the bus driver how much and remembered informed us when reached KL Central.Luckily that the bus driver quite friendly and keep smiling at us.Well,it just cost rm2 per person.And,i just found out that there is no change for the bus fee !! Dont feel surprise,ok cause it was my 1st ride on bus !! believe it or not..=)

After the bus departed not long,the bus stopped infront the pasar.Many old passengers aboard.oopz,i should say senior citizens..=) we even gave our way to those senior citezens.haha.Suddenly,some women began to quarrel behind there,haiz…and they spoke very loud !! got an aunt told the one sitting beside her, not to ask her to buy mee again cause after she bought,still complained that the mee not good to taste !! Well,not i purposely want to hear what they arguing..she said i like to 偷听..=_=

It was really a bumpy ride,the bus kept turned here and there to avoid traffic jam,and still passed by her primary school at Tun Sambathan.At first she said the place looks familiar,seem like she studied there before,so kept finding the school.At last, i pointed to her which she can't recognise it at all !! swt..(what a bad memory...i think she will suffer PArkinson earlier than me..=X) According to her,that place really had changed a lot,Tun Sambathan was a small little Indian Town..the decoration there was all indian design,even the lamp!! Anyway,it looks nice...=)

About 12pm, we reached KL central,the bus driver looked at the front mirror and told us about it. Thanks,uncle..=) Then,we staright away crossed the road to Hang Tuah monorel Station.We bought monorel ticket to IMBI(Times square station),only cost us nearly rm2,i think..Then i just followed what my dear said,since she's experienced with it..When i stepped into the monorel,it really much better than what i imagined,at first i thought monorel only aboard by those foreigners,but the fact is more local than foreigners,it really 180 degree change my thought .After pass through some stations where the distance between 2 stations just about few mins.Finally,we reached IMBI,which was just opposite to Times square...

Hmmm,about Times square,really different from what had i expected,i thought that there is only theme park,but I'm absolutely wrong !! It's looked totally the same as prangin mall,all the clothes,shoes shops...just that the restaurants there really attractive,some have double storey,but commonly restaurant in kl were double storey through my observation..

When I stepped in times square,it really freak me out with total of 10 storey ! (as i suffer height phobia).1st till 5th storey were shopping lots,then the rest were theme park..On the 1st floor,we stopped by to watch cheerleader performance for CIMB squash competition open ceremony.I still told her that Datuk Nicole David will definitely attend this ceremony.Well,it really true...smart right? juz kidding..=) At 3rd floor,we suddenly heard people shouting,then saw a roller coaster passed by infront of us with full speed ! make my heart lub dub non-stop with acceleration..so scary.. We actually planned to play in the theme park,but after heard her brother mentioned the day before that it was not worth to pay rm36 to play in it.So,we forget about it and be ready to shop 6 malls in a day !

After shop for not long, she said lets go and find restaurant to have lunch ! (of course she was hungrt that time since she just ate 2 油炸鬼 and few scoops of 豆花 only)So,we headed towards to the restaurants area,hehe..but we cant make a decision,since she suffer allergy and need to "jie kou" for some time,so no seafood,meats,egg and so on….That's why we have to choose a restaurant which suit her condition,finally I chose 欢天喜地(中国菜)which the dishes have many choices and few ala-carte..After seeing the menu for few mins,i ordered cheese spaghetti which I ate before in gurney while she ordered a normal spaghetti.Then, she kept flipped on the page of cold drinks for few mins.I'm curious about it and asked her is it so difficult to make a choice?? She just smile at me and whispered to me that her ‘aunty visiting’ her.=_=.. since i'm so kind and not that cruel,I let her to order her likes and I will drank 90% of it,hehe..then she ordered a longan 汤圆soup, but the picture really lie to us !! as the soup was totally different with the picture..=_=.perhaps the real 汤圆 was look like red bean soup !! I felt that foods and drinks there were not so delicious,but I liked the cheese spaghetti,haha..unluckily that she dont like cheese,she even wana vomit when smell the cheesy nice smell ! haiz…really mei kou fu ...I still thought we can shared it together…After we charged our "battery",we planned to go lowyat to look for her ideal phone(Samsung B7722 Sorrento) which was dual sim available.But, the problem was both of us had no idea how to go there.So,I intended to ask the waiter in the restaurant we ate. Before i went to ask,we searched for a suitable waiter to ask,after looking around,we saw a very tall thiny waiter.She still guess how tall is that guy,even asked me to stand beside him and compare.=_=..Throgh my observation,mostly the waiters will passed by the counter infront,so i decided to go to the counter and make the enquiry.How childish we were..=P The waiter who showed the directions told in cantonese, " lei hang dou yat lau,jun yao,gan ju yan cou zao dang la.(alr summaries it act)" I listened till blur blur, so roughly follow what he said,luckily we managed to reach the destination.Well,later on she told me that the tall thiny guy was even taller than me a head !! I myself already about 180m height,for him...imagine it urself....=)

After we reached the 1st floor,we followed the crowd as told.We get into a tunnel full of IT shops,just like a small pc or IT fair..Then,we reached the end till the road sides.We dunno where to go next then...Luckily we saw a sign board written low yat with the direction pointed right.Well,low yat was the place full of IT shops,it was quite crowded and the air-cond seem like not function at all !!! Then,we walked up to 1st floor by escalator.Seriously,i not dare to ask the price for that phone actually because some sellers' face look like gengster.haha..But since I'm a guy and dont wana "lao kui" infront of her,I chose some shops which the sellers' face look nice and adorable.=D To our surprise,3 shops that I asked,only 1 shop had it and yet we cant test the phone at all...so dissappointed.So,I told her if u really interested to buy,then back to that shop available next time..

Next destination---Pavilion.Again we don’t know the way.So we decided to go with our sixth sense.=D "sun bian" explore the places around these malls..After we came out of low yat,we walked straight to see what’s in front there.We thought that the road we taken was wrong since there was no people on the path.but we just follow the path till the end.Surprisingly,we found Sungei Wang Plaza along the rpath,so we decided to go in and "jian shi jian shi".

At the entrance,the 慈济 volunteers stopped us and asked to write some greeting to japan earthquake victims.Since it was for charity,i just accepted the request. I remembered I wrote "gambateh,Japanese are the best and so on(forgot le)…"while she duno what to write.So,i gave a suggestion to her and she really followed it...i.e,"we people from the world wont blame Japan for the nuclear pollutions’…hehe.Then we continued walked in to the mall,the ceiling was really low as she told before,I almost can touched it by stretching my arm..and again the air-conditioner inside maybe malfunction too !! so hot !! hot till my dear also cant tahan,haha..she was really 娇生惯养...after we shoped around for a while,I didn’t dare to ask direction from anyone since she said im coward,haiz…In the end,a promoter wana introduced a perfume to me,then I only dare to ask him where pavilion located.He told me just walk straight after reach the main entrance…We so happy to hear it,we quickly searched for the main entrance to get out from this hot mall...After search for some time, we reached the entrance that we came in just now. Again,surprisingly that small entrance was so called 'main entrance'..=_=..it was the 'biggest' main entrance i ever seen...haha...

Out from Sungei Wang Plaza,we just realised that we already at Bukit Bintang !! It was the place where Pavilion located.So i guess we were following the right way ! yes !! On the way,we went in LOT 10, FARENHEIT,which we thought we already reach Pavilion,haha...swt...When we went out from a mall,there was 2 ways to go,either left or right.We decided to turned left and see.After seeing the...how to say...erm,scenery? condition?,whatever la.."bu dui jing",we u-turned back to the entrance and ask the security guard..Well,we should turned right for the right way..When we walked and walked,suddenly she coughed for few times.Actually it was because she had suck in the cigratte smokes.I asked her why dont you avoid it?she answered "lai bu ji"...haha..

Finally we saw a big fountain and a building with PAVILION written on it,we knew we reached already...There was crowded around the fountain and also the entrance.Maybe they were waiting for the drum performance...Once we entered,we saw 2 jet pilots,and she still asked me 'Are those real persons??',haha.....YES, IT IS !! but it really looked quite fake...Afterthat, she already asked me to find seats to rest.Hmm,actually i didn't know that there was 脚泡 on her toes,if not i had already find the bench earlier.I felt so sorry and guilty(Between,she also dunno,just know her toes pain)...We busying search for the bench before we can really enjoy our shopping there.It was hard to find bench in Pavillion,finally we found seats on 2nd floor.While we were sitting there,i login facebook for her via hp,hehe,because i knew she likes to fb...Then we had our small chit chat there,haha...

After rest for about half an hour,we continue shopping...Although Pavilion is well known by its expensive stuffs,but there was still a lot of ppl shopping there.The main point is,not many with bags of stuff on their hands...=)Then we went to see IPad,as she didnt saw or knew it at all,but due to too crowded,so she didnt got chance to touch or feel it at all,and yet her brother got 1,but he refused to lend her,so pity...My dear keep asking me to find watch shop after that,but since watches in pavilion were branded+expensive,so we switch to farreinheit to look for it..before we headed toward farrenheit,we went toilent AGAIN,as what she requested,hehe....懒人屎尿多。。。Hmm,forget mention that there still got drum perfomance,but we cant enjoy it at all,since there was a 'ADVERTISEMENT' on the glass which block our vision,hz....Then there's the climax of the day,we took picture beside the fountain!!!wakaka...but that time,we really dont know who can help us to take it,she suggested me to ask police since there was a police patrol car beside us,but i didnt dare to ask them,then i saw a chinese couple stand beside us,so i asked them,but they seems like not very happy(maybe quarrel before i asked),but they still took the picture for us,haha,so there's the our only合照...

after that we headed toward farrenheit,inside was so small,and not many shop operating that time,but luckily we saw a casio shop,the watches were quite nice,just that they only can give us 10% discount,it's too few for us,since we still student,haha...so i need to let her dissapointed again,sorry dear,but i sure i'll buy u one when u come penang...So,we went bak with little bit dissapointment..

Then she suggested that we can went back from bukit bintang monorel station then switch to lrt at hang tuah,stop at sri petang(which was the last stop of lrt)....after we bought the monorel ticket,we straightly went to it,which we only realize that it moved in opposite direction,hz...so we came down after 2 stations,then we went to opposite lane to wait for other monorel...On that platform,we met a foreigner which asked us the how to get to times square,so we show him the way,and told him that we also the first time using that monorel..haha...luckily he reached his destination,so do we...Then we switch to lrt at hang tuah stop at sri petaling...On the way to sri petaling station,we met wif 3 graduates who holding flower and bear bear,we so curious why would they graduate on march...but we didnt asked them...Finally we reached sri petaling,so she phone her brother as what they promised,and her brother still say okay..But when we called him,and he said he already reached,but we also wait him at the entrance,so i knew there's something wrong....finally her brother said he was waiting at bukit jalil while we were at sri petaling,haha....So we bought ticket again,to bukit jalil..there were so few people on that stations,so creepy...After 10 minutes,the lrt came,and we able to reached bukit jalil 5 minutes later..

Then we heard some people quarrel near the entrace with chinese,你给我出来!!!that time,i knew they were going to fight,since the man shouting was not good people(seems like gengster),so i quickly grab her hand and ran away(but after that only she told me that she still want to watch it there,if i didnt pull her away....)Then we finally met her brother..he seems angry,seldom spoke,haha...

When we reached home,so do her parents..Then we went to eat together after her parents watched news and her brother nap a while,haha..actually we planned to eat at a 'famous' 大排档,but too crowded there,and yet her mom and brother don have the patient to wait for it,so we went to the food stall beside,which few people only,but the taste not bad,we ordered 烤鸡,姜蒸鱼,豆腐,炒菜。。they really cant eat much,left so many for me,maybe they shy to eat so much,haha...after her mom and brother went to night market to buy cake for their cousins who they going to visit later,her dad asked me to settle everything...how good was him..and her mom still give me some of her rice to me,and also you(dear),eat so few only,let me eat the rest...after i settle everything,we went to night market to fetch them,then we headed toward RELATIVE's home...haha,firstly,i really dont dare to go there,but since i already in same car with them,so just went with them...still can enjoy KL night scenery..but 好景不常在,the relatives we planned to go,were in other relative's home...haiz,so there was total of 2 families there....i already need to meet her relatives during our 2nd day dating...

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

18MAR

18 MAR 2011(FRIDAY) 晴天

This was my first holiday trip and also the first date with my dear..i felt so guilty to her since we need separate a distance of 400+km and she didn’t blame me at all,while now I ald get gud result formy stpm,but I stil donwan to choose Uni in KL as my 1st choice(that I promised her laz time),im so sry….

Bak to my journey,I was very surprised to meet the rest at the bus stop,bcz I tot I’ll be alone for my journey to and bak..so unexpected..when we reached kl tol,we amazed by the building and scenery thr,although thr a lots of tall building in penang,bt its different frm here..thn we saw their federal highway,and those ‘wide’ roads,which seldom found in penang…

Finally,we reached bkt jalil bus stop,then I immediately cal her as wat she ask ealier,after I pass thru all the ‘road block’(by samseng),finally bought the tickets,thn met my dear for the 1st time for tis yr,haha,once saw me,she ald smile,I like whn she smile,her white teeth n oso her 可爱的虎牙..wakaka…

Thn she fetch me bak her home,her mom was waiting in the living room,her look so scary,haha,bt after she spoke,din scary at all,jz tat she spoke faz,unlike her daughter who spoke slow n gentle…thn her mom fetch us to kopitiam nearby,she ordered 汤板面和干捞板面,whn the foods here,she asked the bos hw much was the mee,the bos say rm4 n rm5,the boss tot she meant exp,haha…原来她是想说怎么那么大盘。。。

After we finish our lunch,she phoneher ‘driver’ fetch us bak,whn bak,I met her dad,OMG,her dad more scary thn her mom,since he was ex-police,but thn he treat me quite gud,although he spoke a bit loud..after I brg my stuff to her bro room,we head toward midvalley…write in Chinese since here,hehe…

我们到那里时,她还走错路,幸亏她还知道还有别的路可以到parking,只是还蛮赛车的,到处都满了,可是我们没有选择的余地,只好上去碰碰运气,绕了又绕,花了20分钟终于找到位了(幸亏你听我的话,哈哈)一进到里面,我们就四处逛,最主要她是要找厕所,哈哈。。那里的店都大同小异,只是最后一层还蛮特别的,都是双层的。。之后我们就买戏票看戏,那场戏还真的是蛮闷,都不可怕,还不知道为什么她旁边的女生一直喊,在里面时,还以为给她外套会感动到她,哪里知道她自己也有带,真的是有点失望。。看完戏后,我们就到THE GARDEN 走走,那里的布置还真的是美,天花板上还有小小的LED灯,可惜的是一直没机会跟她拍照。。逛完之后,她一直喊饿,我们又拿不了主意,就只好四处逛,最后我选了一间娘惹式餐厅,哈哈,其实我知道她不是饿了,只是脚酸,脚痛。。。我还真是不体贴,让她走了那么久,而不找个地方让她休息。。过后我们点了curry laksa,mee rebus,chendol and 红豆汤。。。真是可怜她,偏偏在我带她吃好料时,才来‘那个’,哈哈。。。她也吃到好幸苦,因为那边的东西都还蛮辣的,所以我只好吩咐她吃一半,我吃了那另一半,哈哈贴心leh…只好眼睁睁看着我吃了。。。吃完后就回家了,路途中下着毛毛细雨,我和她都有闪光,只好慢慢驾。。回到家后,就看到全家在客厅‘恭候’我,哈哈。。有点不自在,幸亏我冲好凉后,他还叫我到楼上去谈天,教她做数学(虽然到最后我也是不会做,真是对不起,太久没用脑思考了。。)还有她还让我看她的熊熊,哈哈,那是她爸爸比我早一个礼拜送她的。。还蛮可爱的。。幸好她没把我的‘天使’给丢到一旁。。。谈到11点左右,我们就各自去睡了。。可是与其说睡,还不如说我是在翻床。。。

Sunday, March 14, 2010

人活在世上是为了什么?为了什么而活着?


我现在觉得人来到这个世上受罪的,你们觉得呢?为了爱?还是为了什么?我觉得人来到世上就是来等死而已。你不觉得吗?所以我看什么都比任何一个人看的开,反正什么都是生不带来死不带去的。所以说人根本就不应该伤心难过,不是吗?也不要为任何人哭,因为不值得。值得你为他哭的人不会让你哭,不值得你哭的人你觉得你应该哭吗?
你 们是不是觉得我根本就没有伤心的时候吧?呵呵...... 不要看我看得这么开,我也有伤心难过的时候,不过我已经做到很少了。因为我连死都不怕还怕什么呢?一个觉得世界是如此不堪的人会留恋这个人间吗?呵呵 说来可笑 竟然有那么多的人不知道人是为了什么而活着,但他活下来了,想活的缺死了。
你们真正的开心过吗?开心 这两个字对我来说真的很陌生,因为我觉得那根本就是虚伪的表情。
如果要问我人活在这个世上还有什么意义,那我只能遗憾的告诉你,没意义。
如果明知道会受伤,还去追求,那我为什么要去追求对自己的伤害呢?不是吗?
所谓有利必有弊
如果世上没有人的存在,我觉得世界会更加美好

Friday, November 13, 2009

十一月十三日 雨。。。

两个陌生的人

擦身而过

开始两个人的缘分
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从熟悉回到陌生
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Friday, November 6, 2009

6 november 2009..... raining...

相隔远 盼相见 相见难 思念长 夜难眠 心难安 只因为 我爱你
寒冷的夜晚,孤单的单人床上躺着,一个笨蛋,傻傻的,滴着眼泪。
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寒风吹过,一阵阵的寒意,正符合这笨蛋的心情。
今天,笨蛋又再和他心爱的人吵架了,就因为笨蛋愚蠢的思想
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一些芝麻小事….
自从,这笨蛋决定爱上她,这承诺,会是一生一世….
但,笨蛋的心,已经是伤痕累累的…
不是因为给她伤,而是恨自己无法带给他心爱的人幸福
曾经,爱得深,自然,伤得也会深。
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彼此甜蜜的回忆,也渐渐的给这些伤痕割伤了,变模糊了
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人生有几个十年,但愿活得要痛快,要快乐
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然而,这笨蛋每天就只会活在痛苦当中
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不见面,情会变淡?
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思念只会更多,自然而然情也变得更多了
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然而对方不是这么想
缘分这东西,说来就来,说去就去
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只怪这笨蛋没有好好的珍惜
痛,对这笨蛋而言,已经是家常便饭了
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笨蛋已不再期盼什么,但就是放不下这颗心
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俗语说,拿得起就要放得下
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笨蛋就是做不到
时间会是解药,只怕太长
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试着从中了解她,可惜就是不了解
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听着tank的《如果我变成回忆》,忍不住,泪又不听话的流下来了
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一个笨蛋,永远不懂得女人的心情
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永远都会以愚蠢的行为来伤害他深爱的女人
一次又一次的
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笨蛋曾经说过,单纯的拥有彼此是最大的幸福
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但,要做到这一点,的确比登天还要难
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人往往都是贪心的
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付出不一定要得到回报,这是一年级都懂得的道理
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但长大了,这概念就慢慢的从脑海中消失的
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已没了期盼的心,剩的只是一颗空白的心
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冰冷冷的…
但愿,这一切只会是一场梦了
梦醒了,天空依然蔚, 你还是你, 而我, 早已失去了属于我自己的方向
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这一切一切, 都不因什么, 就只是因为吾爱汝

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

八月五日 阴天

努力不一定會成功,但成功卻永遠需要努力。

有兩個小學生,為了打羽毛球,把學校禮堂的一百多張長凳搬開,打完球再歸位,同學都笑他們笨,後來他們卻成了羽毛球國手。

其實不怕麻煩,可以實現夢想。

有一個大型才藝比賽,主辦單位打破多年慣例,賽前先發紀念品給小朋友,有人說:「主辦單位有點笨,大家領了紀念品,閉幕典禮時就會很冷清。」結果閉幕時場面非常熱鬧。

其實尊重,可以獲得支持。

有一個人,去打籃球,常常輸。隊友說:「你為什麼這麼笨,都不搶球,能贏都不贏。」他答道:「我們在球場,受到這麼多人的歡迎,他們多麼喜歡跟我們打球。」

其實輸球,可以換來好人緣。

有一個人,帶女朋友去看電影,路不熟,到了戲院,電影已散場。去吃飯,忘了帶皮夾,只得對女朋友說:「能不能借我一點錢。」到女友府上拜訪,遲到了半個多小時,原來摩托車沒油了,他竟然氣喘如牛的推著摩托車趕來。她還是嫁給了這位傻小子。

其實真心,可以換真情。

有一個人,早上出門,後面車子煞車不及撞上來,對方急忙下車向他賠罪,他想:「一點小擦撞,大家都在趕時間,人沒事就 好!」回家後,發現保險桿已經搖搖欲墜。朋友說:「你真笨,應該抄下他的車號。」他說:「事情過去就算了。」過幾天,他接到保險公司的理賠通知,原來對方 早已記下他的車號。

其實不計較,可以得到公平對待。

有個女孩,騎摩托車到大賣場買東西,結帳出來,看到一個人,鬼鬼祟祟的坐在摩托車上,東張西望,她沒好氣的說:「你坐在我車上做什麼?」他哭笑不得的說: 「小姐,我已經等妳半小時了,妳沒事幹麼鎖住我的車。」在婚禮上,人家問他:「你為什麼娶她?」他說:「我喜歡她的迷糊。」

其實迷糊,可以得到疼惜。

有一個人,常常托同事幫她買早點,她總是給30元,買一塊她常吃的麵包,有一天這位男同事休假,她自己跑去買麵包才發現,她買的麵包早已漲價成35元。從此以後,她都會多看他一眼,沒多久,公司流傳了一段佳話「五塊錢買一個老婆。」

其實吃虧,可以獲得好感。

從小聽到大的故事「龜兔賽跑」,總是以為,現實生活裏,絕對不會有人像兔子般,因為貪睡而輸給烏龜。長大後漸漸發現「其實有成就的人,不是靠能力而是靠努力」。

有些人的成就,是你的十倍、百倍、千倍、萬倍,但是他的能力卻不一定是你的十倍、百倍、千倍、萬倍。不是他比你聰明,而是他笨笨的,去做一些你所不願去做的事。

在人生中,聰明的人,常常在最後,變笨了;而笨的人,卻常常在最後,變聰明了。

遇到寒冷酷熱,聰明的人逃開了;笨的人,卻傻傻的去親身嘗試,意外的在寒冷酷熱中成長。

因為笨的人都知道:「努力不一定會成功,但成功卻永遠需要努力。」

Thursday, July 30, 2009

30 July 2009

想念一個人,需要衝動的感覺
思念一個人,需要深刻的烙印
接近一個人,需要滿懷的誠意
愛上一個人,需要十足的勇氣
放棄一個人,談何容易!!!